A Temporary "See You Later Folks!"

[KK 3,313]

I suppose I was right to dread the appearance of this thread again as this update was heartbreaking. I can't really say I know what you're going through and maybe its just because I'm having a bit of a rough time right now, but I did tear up a bit at hearing your news. I can only imagine how awful what you're going through is. My thoughts go out to you and your family tonight Blume. And like Wojo said, cherish what you have of her and spend as much time with her as you can.

Take care of yourself Blume.

[Henry B 51]

I'm sorry, Blume. Make the most of these last few days. No matter the shortcomings in our relationships, the love is what shines through in the final moments. You both deserve to enjoy it for as long as it lasts.

[Datameister 2,586]

I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry, man, and I wish you, your mother, and all your loved ones nothing but the best. You're in all of our thoughts and prayers.

[crocodile 9,724]

Nothing that I will say can possibly change youe current situation, Blume. I can't possibly imagine what you're going through. We don't really know each other as people on the forum, so it all might seem a bit fake. But I do hope this place can cheer you up, even a tiny little bit, while you're going through all of this. Maybe we can do at least this much.

Karol

[Marian Schedenig 11,695]

There's not much I can say, and I guess all of it has been said before (and better) by others.

I'm sorry Blume.

[BLUMENKOHL 1,110]

Well...it's over. Just a few hours ago. Now we just have to get through the part for the people here.

I never imagined I could produce that many tears.

If you are an investing type, Kimberly-Clark (the owners of Kleenex brand) are probably a safe and profitable bet.

Can't really sleep now, so John and Jerry are keeping me company with their lovely music. Any music recommendations from you all would be great.

I'm going through the whole gamut of music...the end of Close Encounters with the choir hits the peace and transition of death well. "The Dark Side Beckons" captures the fury and anger. "Rudy" is giving me some hope. And "The Agony and the Ecstacy" makes wonderful backdrop for the memories...

[indy4 160]

I'm so sorry Blume. I know it's tough and I wish the best for you and your family. I don't know if you're a spiritual type, but I'm sure she's in a better place right now.

As for music, when I'm sad I always listen to the most upbeat/happy stuff in my library for an escape. But since it sounds like you're looking for something that addresses your feelings rather than ignores them, I suggest "A New Beginning" from Minority Report. I think it's one of the most optimistic things JW has written, in that it starts out anxious and distressed and ends up peaceful and happy. And of course E.T.'s message of being able to let go seems like it might be relevant.

Also, know that there will be better days. You will get over this, and you will be happy again.

[Datameister 2,586]

So, so sorry, man. =( I can't even imagine.

As for music recommendations, I don't know if it's up your alley, but "Leaving Hogwarts" might strike the right balance between bittersweetness and that sense of - I don't know, going home, but also leaving home. Horner might be one to look to, as well - despite all the self-plagiarism debates, I do think the man can write some really touching, emotionally charged music. Bicentennial Man and Apollo 13 come to mind, for very different reasons. And on the other side of things, I find "The Immolation Scene" to be one of the most vivid musical depictions of pain - both physical and emotional - that I've ever heard.

I don't know if any of this is at all helpful, but I do hope you can find some degree of solace in the music and in your loved ones. And as I hope you know by now, we're all here for you during this incredibly difficult time.

[Ren 77]

I'm so so sorry, I am sending prayers. I'm glad music is helping you.

[Thor 9,362]

Blumenkohl, I'm very sorry to read this. My condolences to you and your family. I lost my grandfather last year (also, in part, to cancer), but I've never lost a parent, so I wouldn't really know what that's like. Stay strong, buddy!

As for music recommendations, I want to share my alltime favourite film music theme with you. You may not have heard of it, it's from a famous Norwegian puppet film called FLÅKLYPA GRAND PRIX (PINCHCLIFFE GRAND PRIX) and written by Danish composer Bent Fabricius Bjerre, but for me, it captures melancholy, yearning and hope all at the same time:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8qhkBmO3jc&feature=related

[#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 12,387]

Blume. I'm so sorry. I hope you can find some peace with this at some point.

[Incanus 5,890]

I am so sorry and my thoughts go out to you with my prayers. And this music. I hope it might even in minuscule part alleviate your emotional turmoil and soothe you in this difficult time:

[Koray Savas 2,260]

I'm sorry, Blume.

[Ollie 1,375]

Blume you and your family have my deepest sympathy.

The pain and suffering for her are over and the healing process for you and your family can now begin. Words are always hard to come by in moments like these but rest assured family and friends will always be there with a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen.

[Quintus 6,496]

Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak whispers the o'er-fraught heart and bids it break.

All the best, Blum.

[crocodile 9,724]

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Don't know what to add...

Karol

[Wojo 2,458]

I'm so sorry, Blume. She is at peace and no longer suffering.

[King Mark 3,975]

you have all my sympathies

[Jay 46,244]

So sorry to hear Blume.

[Xander Harris 9,675]

Sorry.

[KK 3,313]

I'm so sorry to hear that Blume. You have my sympathies and my prayers go out to you.

[stewdog1 50]

Very sorry to hear about your loss Blume. You have my sympathies and prayers.

[BLUMENKOHL 1,110]

Thanks again everyone for the support and the music recommendations.

All in all I'm not too shabby. Glad my mom is no longer suffering. And looking forward to being back and posting nonsense.

[#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 12,387]

And looking forward to being back and posting nonsense.

Didn't you do that regardless?

[BLUMENKOHL 1,110]

I was largely absent this past week or two.

[#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 12,387]

Really?

[BLUMENKOHL 1,110]

Thanks for noticing!

[#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 12,387]

No problem dude! I'm there for ya...

[Melange 448]

Didn't see this until today.

Very sorry to hear of your loss, Blumenkohl.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijcrv37zU9E

[JoeinAR 1,957]

I'm sorry Blume for your loss. It's tough, but I'm also glad that you did get to spend this time with her as awful as it was.

Being there for someone at the end as terrible as it may seem is also a blessing. Give yourself all the time you need to grieve and then give yourself some more.

[Miguel Andrade 1,725]

I'm deeply sorry for your loss Blume.

I can't even start to imagine loosing one of my dearest ones -- I'm still quite fortunate on that department -- even more in such a tragic way.

In a somewhat belated way, all my prayers will go out to you.

[BLUMENKOHL 1,110]

Thanks you guys!

[Marian Schedenig 11,695]

I'm only reading this now. I'm very sorry, Blume.

Music has a tendency to get associated with certain parts and events in your life. It can help you get through rough times, but certain pieces may also become bound to them. After my father died, I made a point of not listening to the Rolling Stones (he was a fan and we played one song by them at the service) for months just in case.

I hope your choice of music helped you and doesn't make it difficult for you to listen to those pieces again "just for fun".

[#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 12,387]

I tend to avoid music I am really fond of in times of a personal crisis, to avoid the possibility of association.

I tend to listen to stuff like Horner's Another 48 Hours or Jerry's US Marshall's a lot during those times.

[Luke Skywalker 2,385]

aw, I'm sorry Blume.

I feel bad not noticing this before

My condolences and best wishes for you and your family.