Bespin 8,650 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Full moon July 9th... and I'm right in the middle of the midlife crisis... The "forties" crisis like we say in french. Wahouuuuu!!!! Fuck, anybody survived this, being in couple? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerebral Cortex 3,358 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Arrgh, I be sorry to hear you be experiencing this, me bucko. I hope you can clear these rocky waves and soon sail into calmer waters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bespin 8,650 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Share Posted July 6, 2017 12 minutes ago, Cerebral Cortex said: Arrgh, I be sorry to hear you be experiencing this, me bucko. I hope you can clear these rocky waves and soon sail into calmer waters. What a poet. You've been through this and this was hard? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dixon Hill 4,236 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I've been going through this since I was like 20, and unless I die at 70, I'm not even at midlife yet. When it was at full swing a few years ago, know what I did? Joined JWFan. Ricard 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koray Savas 2,254 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I like to call it existentialist depression. Welcome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Those are a walk in the park compared to a mid-life crises Koray. Better be ready! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naïve Old Fart 10,229 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Mid life crisis? I haven't reached puberty, yet! Ricard 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodBoal 7,540 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Dutton 7,207 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I doubt I'll make it to midlife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 crocodile 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 4 hours ago, TheGreyPilgrim said: I've been going through this since I was like 20, and unless I die at 70, I'm not even at midlife yet. When it was at full swing a few years ago, know what I did? Joined JWFan. Really? I had an affair. See, again this tells me I'm just not cut from the same cloth as you guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bespin 8,650 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Share Posted July 6, 2017 Having an affair is currently only a fantasma... Currently.... All those beautiful men everywhere, I can't resign myself that I will turn my head soon and I be 60. I maybe have not the body of my 20s, but I still have them in my head. My libido is at 400 %! This is horrible. I'd would never expect this psychological and physical blend.... And well, the little depression that comes with that I guess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 1 hour ago, Quintus said: Really? I had an affair. See, again this tells me I'm just not cut from the same cloth as you guys. Alex? Is that you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Again with that??? Anyway, I thought Alex was single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Probably, but you do like to take on that same smug "I'm not like the rest of you guys" attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I've been saying that for years though, every time I am reminded that JWFan is inhabited by the more "geeky" individuals in society - as I see it. I'm not sure why you act surprised by it all the time. And yes, the perception of smugness is bound to be apparent, if one feels they are on the receiving end. Can't be helped, sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 You and Alex are the only ones who have persistently done the "Stefan only watched Star Trek, Doctor Who and LOTR" thing! Twats! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 As for the whole Alexcremers comparison you have going on though, I am barely anything like the guy. His style is to sneer and undermine, he's a classic passive aggressor. He's never direct and unflinching about anything like I am. I'm interested in discussion and banter; not games. Of course, both can come across as twattish, I'll agree with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I dunno, I think there's more than that. You're a shadowy reflection of him. Beloq and Indy.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 So when do I get to see Alex's head explode? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Once the Brexit is officially signed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricard 2,254 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 12 hours ago, Richard said: Mid life crisis? I haven't reached puberty, yet! Same here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dixon Hill 4,236 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 10 hours ago, Quintus said: Really? I had an affair. See, again this tells me I'm just not cut from the same cloth as you guys. Wasn't really serious, although the two things did coincide. Actually, at its zenith, I was doing nothing but playing jazz gigs around Manhattan, getting stoned, and shagging the woman. It was my irresponsible rockstar phase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Getting stoned and shagging woman at age 40? sounds familar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bespin 8,650 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Share Posted July 6, 2017 Learning jazz or get stoned, that's an idea. Weed will be legal in Canada next year, I hate the smell, but I will retry it. "Shagging" women, I'm not sure! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Disco Stu 15,501 Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I'm turning 30 in 2 months and I have 2 kids 3 and under. I don't have time for crises! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bespin 8,650 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Share Posted July 6, 2017 Just now, Disco Stu said: I'm turning 30 in 2 months and I have 2 kids 3 and under. I don't have time for crises! 30... so young. sight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ricard 2,254 Posted July 7, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2017 Although not a mid-life one, I went through a deep crisis in the late '90s during which I wasn’t working or doing anything productive with my life, other than spending countless hours a day on the internet. During that time I founded JWFan. Cerebral Cortex, Disco Stu, John and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Disco Stu 15,501 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 49 minutes ago, Ricard said: Although not a mid-life one, I went through a deep crisis in the late '90s during which I wasn’t working or doing anything productive with my life, other than spending countless hours a day on the internet. During that time I founded JWFan. Idle hands are the devil's play things........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Hehe, yeah they are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bespin 8,650 Posted July 12, 2017 Author Share Posted July 12, 2017 What do you think about difference of age between two lovers? Are you in couple with someone older or younger than you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Dutton 7,207 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I keep forgetting whether I'm supposed to log in as Rose Dawson, Selina Kyle, Kira Nerys or Evil-Lyn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 On 07/07/2017 at 8:03 AM, Bespin said: 30... so young. sight. People in their 30s still seem like teenagers these days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Dutton 7,207 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Because they're mentally immature and trying to hold on to their rapidly fading youth. They cling and they cling, but like Miss Trudy, a terrible inevitable fate awaits them. Later, as they...grow...follows madness. And death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dixon Hill 4,236 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I vos nevar dat yung. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 5 hours ago, Bespin said: What do you think about difference of age between two lovers? Are you in couple with someone older or younger than you? I'm 40 and she's 33. Not that much of a gap really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I'm getting too old for women in their 20s. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 It's not that you should be concerned about; at your age you'll be very lucky to find a woman without children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Yeah children are unacceptable baggage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Good luck finding a woman in her 30's who doesn't have kids, and/or isn't carrying a whole load of emotional baggage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 With his strict criteria in place, perhaps Jerry will be forever alone then? That'd surely be a waste. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I can deal with a woman's emotional baggage. That's not so bad. Although I have had some problems with their bizarre daddy issues. But you can't do anything about their kids. I can't just make them go away. Plus I'm not good with kids anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#SnowyVernalSpringsEternal 10,362 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 1 minute ago, Sally Spectra said: I can deal with a woman's emotional baggage. Nothing you've ever written here or on Facebook suggests to me that this is true! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Compared with the nightmare scenario of a woman having kids, some emotional issues are... kids' play! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bespin 8,650 Posted July 12, 2017 Author Share Posted July 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Quintus said: I'm 40 and she's 33. Not that much of a gap really. Me 43 and my husband 51. His midlife crisis was heavy (he returned to University at his age, moved to work outside Canada then returned, Etc.), now that's my turn... As he may start an early (I think) man menopause. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 And what's this about a "strict criteria"? It's not like I'm asking for specific hair colour, eye colour, astrological sign, bank balance and post code! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 1 hour ago, Sally Spectra said: Plus I'm not good with kids anyway. Nowt unusual about that, few blokes are good with kids until they're essentially forced to git gud. 41 minutes ago, Bespin said: Me 43 and my husband 51. His midlife crisis was heavy (he returned to University at his age, moved to work outside Canada then returned, Etc.), now that's my turn... As he may start an early (I think) man menopause. Uh-oh, it's not sounding too great is it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 10 minutes ago, Quintus said: Nowt unusual about that, few blokes are good with kids until they're essentially forced to git gud. Thankfully I'll never be in a position to find out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintus 5,408 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Firing blanks or don't want children? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unlucky Bastard 8,479 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Cats will be my substitute for children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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